All my forum posts have me looking like a sorta everquest-llke human female. Is that the default picture for accounts that have not uploaded a custom profile picture? I'm not saying she looks bad, but I'm a 64 year old male, so....yeah.

Hehe, it’s random when you create an account, there’s like a dozen of them. That one is I think Antonius Bayle from EQ2. I can manually update it to another one, any you see on the forums. Or you can update it with the profile link in the menu at the top (top-right)